Military Deployment Didn’t Stop Our Marriage — Here’s How

Military Deployment Didn’t Stop Our Marriage — Here’s How

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Getting married was always part of our plan — we just didn’t expect to do it from opposite sides of the world.

When you’re in a relationship separated by distance, especially with international logistics, everything gets more complicated. Time zones, travel restrictions, planning — even picking a date can feel overwhelming.

We wanted to start our life together. But a traditional wedding just kept falling through.

Then we found out we could say “I do” over Zoom — for real.

At first, we thought it was only symbolic. But after researching, we learned that states like Utah legally support fully virtual marriages here — with a licensed officiant and official paperwork — and they’re 100% valid.

We decided to go for it.

Here’s how it worked for us:

• We verified our identities and filled out a quick form.
• We booked our wedding time with an officiant who was licensed for online ceremonies.
• We invited our small circle to join via Zoom.
• And when the day came, we connected to the ceremony, said our vows, and just like that — we were married.

I said “I do” from my apartment. My partner said it from their temporary station.

It was emotional. It was stress-free. And it was ours.

The officiant walked us through the process. The ceremony was quick, but powerful. And we received our official marriage certificate immediately — no courthouse, no plane tickets, no headaches.

Since then, we’ve used our online marriage to handle joint bank accounts, and every agency has accepted it — no issues at all.

If you’re dealing with distance, don’t wait. Online marriage is recognized, and it’s a meaningful way to start your future — even if you’re not in the same place.

We’re proof that marriage can happen anywhere — and that what matters most is the vows.

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